Is It You?

Updated: Jan 30, 2019



There are those times in your life when you come to an impasse. No matter what you do to help yourself (extra sleep, herbs, homeopathic remedies, exercise, therapy) you just can’t feel better. You feel like you’re not yourself and you’re days are consumed with emotion. You may have gotten to this place slowly or abruptly but now that you’re here, what do you do? It’s time to ask:


What is the Universe trying to tell me?


When you are at your impasse, it is clear that something has to change. Sometimes it’s easier to try to change yourself than change your situation. Perhaps you have a terrible boss who treats you with disrespect and harsh words. There is never a day when you go into the office and feel calm. So you think “The Universe is telling me to practice self care and get out of here!”, so you do. Fortunately you find just the right position for equal pay at a lovely company. As time passes, you come to find out that your new boss starts treating you with disrespect and similar harsh words! You are now feeling the EXACT SAME WAY that you felt when you were at your old job! How can this be? (And thinking back, this is the EXACT SAME WAY you felt as a child when your parents disrespected each other or you!). So you polish up your resume and hit the pavement again only to find this same pattern repeated a third time. So what is the lesson? Maybe it’s time to ask that question again:


What is the Universe trying to tell me?


What is the Universe trying to tell you? You’d think that if you were the person in this scenario you would see what’s going on, but it’s not always easy. It will feel different with each boss and sometimes your brain will tell you it’s just your bad luck. It’s not. The Universe is trying to tell you that there